Tacit Understanding Game (TUG): Predicting Interpersonal Compatibility
Yueshen Li, Krishnaveni Unnikrishnan, Aadya Agrawal
TL;DR
The paper tackles the challenge of predicting interpersonal compatibility in a privacy preserving, scalable way. It introduces the Tacit Understanding Game, a lightweight two player word association game that yields dense behavioral traces and couples real data with large language model–generated synthetic data. The authors demonstrate a privacy minded data collection pipeline, a hybrid real plus synthetic dataset, and an interactive ML workflow using a Siamese SBERT based architecture that achieves meaningful alignment with human compatibility judgments. The work offers a practical approach to privacy aware social sensing with potential applications in dating, collaboration, and social platforms, while acknowledging limitations and outlining paths for broader validation and fairness checks.
Abstract
Research on relationship quality often relies on lengthy questionnaires or invasive textual corpora, limiting ecological validity and user privacy. We ask whether a sequence of single-word choices made in a playful setting can reveal personality and predict interpersonal compatibility. We introduce the Tacit Understanding Game (TUG), a two-player online word association game. We collect word choice traces, annotate a subset with psychological ground truth scales, and bootstrap a larger synthetic corpus via large language model simulation. TUG demonstrates that minimal, privacy preserving signals can support relationship matching, offering new design space for social platforms.
