Empathy by Design: Aligning Large Language Models for Healthcare Dialogue
Emre Umucu, Guillermina Solis, Leon Garza, Emilia Rivas, Beatrice Lee, Anantaa Kotal, Aritran Piplai
TL;DR
This work tackles the risk of inaccurate and impersonal guidance from general-purpose LLMs in caregiver–patient conversations by introducing a Direct Preference Optimization (DPO)–based alignment pipeline. By constructing a caregiver-focused QA dataset and training with paired preferred/rejected responses, the approach directly optimizes for empathy, simplicity, and factual accuracy, complemented by LoRA-based parameter efficiency. Comprehensive evaluation across semantic, factual, and human-centric metrics demonstrates that DPO-tuned LLaMA-based systems achieve superior semantic alignment, stronger factual grounding, and more empathetic, readable, and appropriately formal dialogue compared with baselines and some commercial systems. The results support a scalable, transparent path to trustworthy, patient- and caregiver–oriented AI assistants in geriatrics and dementia care, with open-source releases to enable replication and extension.
Abstract
General-purpose large language models (LLMs) have demonstrated remarkable generative and reasoning capabilities but remain limited in healthcare and caregiving applications due to two key deficiencies: factual unreliability and a lack of empathetic communication. These shortcomings pose significant risks in sensitive contexts where users, particularly non-professionals and caregivers, seek medically relevant guidance or emotional reassurance. To address these challenges, we introduce a Direct Preference Optimization (DPO)-based alignment framework designed to improve factual correctness, semantic coherence, and human-centric qualities such as empathy, politeness, and simplicity in caregiver-patient dialogues. Our approach fine-tunes domain-adapted LLMs using pairwise preference data, where preferred responses reflect supportive and accessible communication styles while rejected ones represent prescriptive or overly technical tones. This direct optimization method aligns model outputs with human preferences more efficiently than traditional reinforcement-learning-based alignment. Empirical evaluations across multiple open and proprietary LLMs show that our DPO-tuned models achieve higher semantic alignment, improved factual accuracy, and stronger human-centric evaluation scores compared to baseline and commercial alternatives such as Google medical dialogue systems. These improvements demonstrate that preference-based alignment offers a scalable and transparent pathway toward developing trustworthy, empathetic, and clinically informed AI assistants for caregiver and healthcare communication. Our open-source code is available at: https://github.com/LeonG19/Empathy-by-Design
