"Can't believe I'm crying over an anime girl": Public Parasocial Grieving and Coping Towards VTuber Graduation and Termination
Ken Jen Lee, PiaoHong Wang, Zhicong Lu
TL;DR
This study examines how English-speaking viewers experience and cope with the announced retirements of popular VTubers, Kiryu Coco and Uruha Rushia, by analyzing nearly three years of Reddit discussions. Using a mixed-methods approach that combines deductive and inductive coding with quantitative time-series modeling, the authors identify distinct emotional trajectories, coping strategies, and evidence of grief policing in VTuber communities. They propose a typology of VTuber retirements and demonstrate how identity co-construction, reincarnation discussions, and archival practices shape viewer responses and community dynamics. The findings offer design implications for online spaces that support parasocial grieving, tribute creation, and more nuanced VTuber recommendation and archival practices, with broader relevance to online identity, fandom, and digital culture research.
Abstract
Despite the significant increase in popularity of Virtual YouTubers (VTubers), research on the unique dynamics of viewer-VTuber parasocial relationships is nascent. This work investigates how English-speaking viewers grieved VTubers whose identities are no longer used, an interesting context as the nakanohito (i.e., the person behind the VTuber identity) is usually alive post-retirement and might "reincarnate" as another VTuber. We propose a typology for VTuber retirements and analyzed 13,655 Reddit posts and comments spanning nearly three years using mixed-methods. Findings include how viewers coped using methods similar to when losing loved ones, alongside novel coping methods reflecting different attachment styles. Although emotions like sadness, shock, concern, disapproval, confusion, and love decreased with time, regret and loyalty showed opposite trends. Furthermore, viewers' reactions situated a VTuber identity within a community of content creators and viewers. We also discuss design implications alongside implications on the VTuber ecosystem and future research directions.
