Strong Friendship Paradox in Social Networks
Kristina Lerman
TL;DR
The paper addresses why most of your friends have more friends than you do and how higher-order network structure biases local observations and trait perceptions. It formalizes the strong friendship paradox (SFP) and its generalized form, deriving that the effect depends on the degree distribution via $E\{d(Y)\}-E\{d(X)\} = \frac{\mathrm{Var}\{d(X)\}}{E\{d(X)\}}$, and on degree–trait correlations via $E\{f(Y)\}-E\{f(X)\} = \frac{\mathrm{Cov}(f(X),d(X))}{E\{d(X)\}}$, with transsortativity playing a key role. The analysis shows SFP is prevalent in real networks (roughly 70–90%), amplified by disassortativity and degree–trait correlations, and that shuffling trait assignments can remove SFP while leaving FP intact. These biases have implications for measurement, polling, and contagion dynamics, underscoring the need to account for higher-order network structure to mitigate misperceptions and guide interventions.
Abstract
The friendship paradox in social networks states that your friends have more friends than you do, on average. Recently, a stronger variant of the paradox was shown to hold for most people within a network: `most of your friends have more friends than you do.' Unlike the original paradox, which arises trivially because a few very popular people appear in the social circles of many others and skew their average friend popularity, the strong friendship paradox depends on features of higher-order network structures. Similar to the original paradox, the strong friendship paradox generalizes beyond popularity. When individuals have traits, many will observe that most of their friends have more of that trait than they do. This can lead to the Majority illusion, in which a rare trait will appear highly prevalent within a network. Understanding how the strong friendship paradox biases local observations within networks can inform better measurements of network structure and our understanding of collective phenomena in networks.
